Oscar Wilde was a very wise man to give this advice. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than knowing my enemies are going out of their way to plot and scheme and I am simply living my life. I’ve learned that forgiveness is about you having peace and not about the other person getting away with what they do. So go on, forgive. It will make you feel better and annoy them that they did not get under your skin. I don’t like using the word always but, I would say it’s appropriate in this statement.